Me and My Hijab Story

        When I was study in Malaysia July 2007, it's my first time using hijab. I used Hijab because I felt Allah Swt really loves me, made my dream to study abroad come true.
Alhamdullilah I got Scholarship from government South Sumatera to Universiti Utara Malaysia (UUM)  for my Bachelor Degree of Tourism Management.
Where Malaysia is a Muslim country,  I learned a lot about Islam from this country, and I realize if we did what Allah swt said, Allah will make our life is easier and more beautiful.
Since I using Hijab ( Jilbab/Kerundung) I felt my life more colorful, I felt comport with closed all my body, not many man disturbed me when I walk alone,  and I saw so many young girls looks so clam and fresh with Hijab. 
I'm so happy with using hijab cause this my identity as Muslimah. 

         I had a great experience with my Hijab when I was holiday in Phi-Phi Island, Phuket, Thailand. Actually I was afraid peoples will think me different with cover all my bodies, where out there so many girls open their clothes with mini clothes they sleeping around the beach, swimming fool, ship, cafe, bar etc.
First I was afraid people will avoid me because I using hijab.
At Morning 28 December 2007 when so many people want to celebrate New Year’s party. I went to beach alone, because some of my friends still sleeping at villa.  Yeah it’s really early morning I walked to beach.  Unpredictable happened and it was really amazing....
Subhanallah Allah is really understand me, in the crowed of beach , I sit alone enjoying the beach with writing and reading a book, suddenly there's some guys (staff) of restaurant coming and offer me drink ( juice) for me, it's free.
I was wondering why they give me this drink for free, talk by talk actually they was proud of me, young Muslimah wearing hijab and sit alone with reading book in the beach.
They told me that they were Muslim too, and they really seldom to meet Muslimah wearing hijab here. Finally it's because we are family because of Muslim, they become so extraordinary kind to me and they know me as Muslimah because I'm wearing hijab. SubhanaAllah... Hijab is really identity as Muslimah.  

Since that time I'm so proud wearing Hijab to anywhere because only by using Hijab they recognize me as Musimah. Thank You Allah for giving me Hidayah when I was young to wearing Hijab. Alhamdullilah, now I permanent using Hijab, I Pray I will use it until the end of my life. May Allah always made me strong and Istiqamah with my hijab. I pray I can be extraordinary Muslimah by using hijab. Be Inspiring women for others Muslimah in this world, especially to my parents, my biggest families, my friends, my country Indonesia and for my Religion Islam and for my future husband. And all things I did it’s only because of Allah Swt.  

    Alhamdullilah ya Allah for all bless for us, now I continue my master tourism in Sekolah Tinggi Pariwisata Bandung (STPB). I'm very lucky too can accepted  in this campus because STPB is the first campus of Tourism & Hospitality in Indonesia and directly under the Ministry Of Tourism Indonesia. 
In here I can meet IKMM (Ikatan Keluarga Mahasiswa Muslim) which bring me to know more about Islam, Organization , Developing Human Resource, Friendship, Leadership and Second Family here. Yeah I felt we are families in this IKKM. How about Love? the true love..did I found in here? hehe I don't know, coz only Allah Swt know the best man for me, but for sure I really hope Allah Swt give the great Muslim for me as my Imam. A man who really love to Allah Swt and follow the sunnah Rassullah Muhammad Saw. 
"O Ya Allah please show me the way to meet my great husband soon, that You already prepare for me, since first time we were born in this world. Ya Allah made us Halal Soon. I have dream to explore the world, see all the great things You made directly with my eyes and his eyes. And I really want to enjoy it not alone, but with my lovely husband, my children, my parents, my sisters, my cousins and all the biggest families.  Aamiin

Now I'm as tourism student, yeah so many place need to visit to see the real happen in there. I hope I can explore the world with mahrom, one of my mahrom is my Great Husband, Ya Allah please protect my parents, my families,and my husband??? 

Ya Rabb, please guide me and show me the way to be Great Muslimah and became the Great Wife...

Chamber of Secret of Masjid As Saffir  STPB (Gua Hiro)

when the sun shine will leaves us, and the moon will coming to bright our beautiful nite. Thanks Allah Swt , Alhamdullilah for Everything. I love U so much. I love U Allah for all

Suranya , Me and Anis, (My Thailand friends) at Yalla 2007

On the way to Phi-Phi Island by the cruise, Phuket 2007

Sholat Idul Adha with Suranya's

Families At Pattani , Thailand

Beautiful of the beach Kon Lanta .Phuket Thailand

Masjid Raya Pattani , The biggest mosque in South Thailand 2007

After exploring the private beach, December 2007

Staff Muslim Thailand in Phuket, recognize as Muslimah

Memorial Tsunami at 26 December in Phuket, 2007

Subhanaallah ,The Creator of Allah. Twin beach at Phi-phi Island, I have to the Top to get this view.

IKMM goes to CIC. Jabar 2012

Islamic Gathering , Jawa Barat 2012

           
           

Social & Culture of Tourism Indonesia ...Persatuan Indonesia

Today we learn about Social and Culture of Tourism In Indonesia.
 now we realize Indonesia is rich with culture, race, language, religion, region and even the culture.
but whatever we are different, we are one in Indonesia. so all of us must be realize about it.

such in this class, there are many race, Makasar, Gorontalo, Minang Padang, Sunda , Bandung, Ciamis, Indramayu, Cirebon, and me Palembang.

untuk membangun negara ini tidak boleh rasis, karena Indonesia terdapat berbagai culture...
so let:'s from now, become the agent of change.
start from our self.....
lets change the world be better place...
change the world we need Knowledge .... have high level in intellectual, emotional and Spiritual  (ESQ)

afternoon , after class pak Haryo Martodirdjo
Pascasarjana STPB
3Oct 2013

           
           

Keluarga SaMaRa..

Cinta itu Anugrah.

Setiap yang terjadi dalam hidup kita ini , semuanya adalah angurah Allah swt

            Allah mengatur setiap keajadian , tidak ada satu kejadian tejadi di dunia ini tanpa izin Allah Swt. Bahkan kejadian ketertarikan kamu dengan lawan jenis itu pun bagian dari rencananya Allah. Shobat,  jangan merasa serba salah atau pusing sendiri kalau kamu mulai tertarik dengan lawan jenis mu, itu normal fitrahnya setiap manusia, karena manusia memilik hati, perassan ,akal pikran dan nafsu.

            Ya kalau kamu mulai jatuh hati pada seseorang yang menarik perhatiaan mu itu wajar, apalagi anak muda..heheh nah sekarang tinggal bagaimana kamu memanfaatkan ketertarikan kamu dengan lawan jenis ini untuk menjadi insane manusia yang lebih baik. Contoh jika kamu jatuh hati pada seseorang maka jangan nafsu yang kamu ikuti untuk yang berbuat yang di larangan agama, tapi ambilah pelajaran dari orang yang mencuri perhatian mu itu apa kelebihanya dan keunggulan lalu ikuti , tiru yang baik dari darinya, sehingga semakin kita dekat denganya semakin baik juga tingkah laku kita. Karena itu jatuh cintalah pada orang yang baik dan beriman , agar kamu juga bisa menjadi lebih baik dan beriman.

            Shobat,  Minta lah kepada Allah Sang Pemilik Hati semua manusia untuk menjatuhkan pilihan hati kita kepada orang yang tepat. Kepada seseorang yang juga menaruhkan hatinya hanya kepada Allah swt saja. Mencintai seseorang karena Allah Insha allah itu akan lebih indah dan bermakna ketimbang mencintai seseorang karena alasan lain.

            “ketika aku mencintai manusia, aku kecewa ternyata manusia itu tidak sempurna. Ketika aku mencintai Allah, aku kecewa ternyata cintaku tak sempurna. “   

            Ingin mendapatkan pasangan yang baik??? Ya perbaikilah dirimu sendiri dulu. Ingat lah janji Allah swt. Wanita yang baik untuk laki-laki yang baik juga, dan sebaliknya wanita zina untuk lelaki yang zina juga. so shobat kalau mau mendapatkan pasangan yang terbaik, perbaiklah dirimu dulu.

            Yang baik akan menarik yang baik juga, Masalah siapa jodoh atau pasangan hidup kamu??hmm jangan risau shobat, ga perlu nuntut atau maksa untuk tahu siapa jodoh kita, yang terpenting adalah siapkanlah dirimu dengan baik ilmu, mental, pikiran, perassan, fincial untuk bertemu jodohmu. Ingatlah Allah telah menciptakan manusia itu berpasang-pasangan.

            Buat kamu kaum Hawa siapkan lah dirimu baik fisik maupun batin untuk menjalani pernikahan, siap menjadi seorang istri yang Sholeha  dan seorang ibu yang menginspirasi  untuk anak-anaknya.  Urusan siapakah sang pangeran itu adalah Rahasia Allah. Yang penting siapkan lah dirimu dari sekarang. The right men come in the right time.

            Buat kamu kaum Adam, siapakanlah dirimu  sekarang juga , baik ilmu  , pikrian dan keuangan untuk membangun surga dunia, berumah tangga dengan istri yang sholeha. Mental dan sikap mu sebagai seorang pemimpin keluarga, Iman seorang istri, ayah yang menjadi motivasi anak-anak, serta Suami yang selalu membahagiakan istri.

            Siapa jodohmu serahkanlah totalitas pada Allah swt  minta yang terbaik dunia Akhirat, dan di iringin dengan ikhitar mu yang maksimal. Kalau kamu sudah merasa cocok dan pas dengan seorang wanita maka segeralah mencari tahu latar belakang keluarganya,kenalan dengan saudara-saudaranya, merasa sudah pas temuilah orang tuanya , ajukanlah proposal nikahmu. Jangan di tunda-tunda lagi ataupun di hitbah atau di tunang-tunang lagi. nanti itu bikin kamu semakin merana ingin melakukan belum bisa, pikiran mu melayang-melayang. Nah bisa-bisa jadi zina pikiran ..hehehe Biasa jiwa muda , nafsu syawah begitu membara. Kalau sudah tunangan berarti sdh ga bisa merik kanan kiri lagi. dan banyakin dosa aja Karena kebanyakan khayalnya, mending straight forward langsung Married.

             Dan kasihan juga wanitanya harus menunggu lama, seandainya ada beberapa pria lain juga mendekati dan mengajaknya nikah di saat tunangan itu, maka Galaulah pula wanita itu melilih mana yang pantas, cepat dan tepat. Dengan tunangan –tunangan bisa jadi kamu di kalah kan dengan orang yang mengajak menikah. Ya dari keluarga wanita pasti mendukung dengan yang pasti- pasti aja, yang serius ngajak nikah , ga cuman tunangan_tunangan. Nah bisa jadi kamu yang lama mikir akan keduluan dengan si orang cepat mengambil keputusan tadi.

            Okeh jadi sekarang kalau kamu sudah dapat wanita idamanya itu maka bersemangatlah mencari Rejeki Allah yang Halal , yang banyak serta berkah. Perbanyak sedekah, tuntutlah Ilmu Dan berdoalah dan berniatlah kepada Allah bahwa kamu ingin segera di permudahkan untuk melaksanakan perintah Allah tsb dan mengikuti sunah rassul .  ingatlah Allah sangat suka dengan pernikah dan sangat membenci dengan perceraian. Jangan kamu di sibukan dengan hal-hal ga penting merayu gombal atau carper (curi perhatian) didepan nya. Mending langsung sampaikan tujuan dan niat baik mu itu pada sang wanita, agar si wanita itu tahu perasaan kamu, siapa tahu si doi juga punya perassan sama kamu, who knows right? Tapi kalau ga kamu coba kamu ga akan tahu hasilnya dan sampe kapanpun itu hanya jadi perasan mu sendiri saja. Dari pada galau sendiri mending konsultasi dengan orang yang bijak dan minta petunjuk Allah  apa yang harus dilakukan. Okeh keep spririt wahai insane Muda. Your bright future wait you as long as you faith and follow Allah Swt rules.

O Allah please guides us to your Jannah.  

Tobe continue

Asrama Putri yang semakin sepi, seorang gadis mencoba untuk productive di suasana liburan.

By : Juwita Qadarsi Said Karrai

The Smartest, Richest, Luckiest, Beautiful Muslimah J amin ya Rabbalamin

Alhamdullilah, Finally I felt the Degree Convocation day

Pelataran Conselory

Me dan my youngest sister Dhona

Dhona, Me and My elder sister Rina

Me and Chinese Friends

Dhona, Juwita, Rina

enjoying evening at UUM 

me and Yaman Friends

love u both

in front of counselory

me and Royal Highest counselory 

Dewan MAS before ceremony

Dewan MAS during the ceremony . full of Student and Lectures, and Parents

Stage when I have to go

Ayuk rina , Me & our beloved mom

Me and Nigeria Friends

we with Somalia and Nigeria girls

with Somalia Friends

me, with Somalia & Malay guys, My lovely mom

we & Adam

Somalia brother, Me and Ayuk Rina

Mom, Ulka, Me, Pipit, Dian and Dhona

with Indonesian guys

both us twin, different style

with Malaysian friends

fell free, want to fly....:)

Alhamdullilah, finally I felt the convocation day 

love u all my lovely sisters and mom

just get the robe, at TSO

prepare for the convo

mom ur always in my heart..love u so much mama

me with Chinese Malay

Alhamdullilah , Bachelor Degree Tourism Management with Honours

Thanks Allah, thanks all my families. Thanks for everything

oke, see yahh, see u later in my next convo master Insha Allah soon . Aamiin Ya Rab,

Thanks To Allah Swt, for blessing us giving the chance for me to enjoy my delay convocation , that should be in 2011 last years. Whatever I Alhamdullilah, I can felt it in this years 2012 with my beloved mother , elder sister Rina and my youngest sister Dhona. Thank You Allah I can celebrate with them the most who really love me.

I felt so greatful and Thankfulness for everything you give to us, our journey was so great , everything going so great.

Allah , I don't know what we will happen to me , if I 'm coming without my families. 

Oo  Allah you know the person I want to meet in UUM, I was so excited to meet him,one of my biggest motivation to come for Convocation , I want to meet him, but again and again .

we can not high expectation from people it will made you dispointed.

Your best friends

-JQRPV-

Enjoy your wonderful convocation Bachelor Degree of Tourism Management. 

Welcome 2012, ..Welcome back to Adventure life again

welcome 2012,

it's fell so long time ,since coming new years 2012, I have Plan to back again to Malaysia, find job there and continue master, so in January I had already busy prepare to back adventure again.I decide to go at January , but suddenly I got email from my best fren and also my course mate, Siti Norbaya ,usually call her Ayu,.
she invited me to her Wedding  I really want to attend to her special day with his king .
sort story cancel the Plane on january and I fly on 2 of february to Malaysia, again...bye Palembang for while..by Indonesia for while...if I will miss u. but if Allah have others plan . we can meet again in better condition 

Alhamdullilah ya Allah , My Rabb..

Alhamdulillah, for everything to Allah Swt for blessing us and made us so lucky and happy today..

I just decide for my thesis , Alhamdullialh Ya Allah finally I got the inspiration to write for Thesis..O allah Hope Please help me and guide my step to follow all Your sign. Yeah talk about tourism , tourism in our country Indonesia is really beautiful and amazing . one of the wonderful land in this world.


now , I just thinking how all the people can enjoy it, the beauty of Indonesia. O Allah , You know our country is the biggest Muslim Population in this world. so what we have to do for develop our country. yeah every body should ask themselves what contribution for this country. Indonesia need the real great leader to lead this big country. so for now we can't not blame other people if we want to success. so just prepare your self and friends to develop Indonesia one day, be honest, wised, confidence, leadership, and Amanah. Every step you take you have to consulted to The Great God Allah Swt first, then can take the decision, because only Allah Swt knows what will happen in the future...:)


Ya Allah , please guide us and always  love us..never ever let me go far from You Allah, because only You know the really of me, and knows what in the deep of my heart...

Morning at As -Saffir Mosque
Sekolah Tinggi Pariwisata Bandung
saat sang menatari mulai tersenyum dan keyakinan diri semakin meningkat..

Sadar atau Tidak Sadar...:)

Sometime , we need to talk when we know it true..because if we are silence  it's mean we just welcome the wrong thing will happen.
life is need courage, Life is need energy, Life is need movement,
No right or wrong in this life, it all depend on the situation and depend on the person.
for sure the only True in this Life only the Holly Book from the Greatest God. yeah Now days only Al-Qur'an is pure no intervensi from people or human. Others Hollybook from Allah too,  such Injil, Zabur and Taurat. nowdays it's not reall what God said. cause already change by the people. so be wise when u get the information. Better filter and find the truth .
:) wish u luck
wish all of luck.
may Allah always bless us
please pray for Muslim
pray for Indonesia
Pray for all the country in this world
pray for me too Juwita Qadarsi  .